If you've been reading my blog for the last few months, you probably know how badly I took my pregnancy weight gain. I'm a little embarrassed by that now. In fact, I'd like to go back in time and tell my pregnant self to "shut up and eat another cupcake."
At the time, I was completely freaked out by what I would look like after the baby was born. And how do I look after? Not half bad! I thought I'd be crying my eyes out over stretch marks and impossible to lose fat... but I'm not! I don't really care! Ha!
I definitely don't look the same as I did before I had Carson, but my attitude has changed too. My body did an amazing thing, and through breastfeeding it continues to support my little man now! How awesome is that! I appreciate my body now more than ever before.
Don't get me wrong, I would love not to have stretch marks, fatter than before butt and hips, or a little extra to love around my middle, but to be honest, I don't care enough to do a whole lot about it. I'm sure my hubby might like me to care a little more, but then again, I think he might like my new body image better than he liked my old body.
I truly realize now that there are so many more important things in life than how I look in a bathing suit. I'm reminded of that everyday I spend with my husband and son. Now when I choose to eat healthy foods and exercise, I'm doing it to stay healthy and happy for my family. I feel like a brand new person.
So, bring on the bathing suit... and the cupcake!
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4 years ago

Great attitude!! The body changes are so worth it so it ultimately doesn't matter. Stretch marks are nothing compared to a sweet little baby in your arms. (and ps-you look fantastic)
ReplyDeleteI'm glad you posted this. I have struggled on some days with gaining weight, swelling ankles, etc. even though I know I'm doing the best I can to be healthy - eating well most of the time, walking 1-2 miles 4-5 times per week, and have really not gained much yet. It's the fear of the unknown, I guess. Thanks for putting it back in perspective for me. :-)
ReplyDeleteYay!!
ReplyDeleteYou got it JoDee; good health is the most important thing!
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